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  Posted on November 22, 2012 20:02
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So, I was in a relationship with this guy for six and three quarters of a month. In this relationship, we had lots of problems, as with any other. It was both of our first times in a relationship, so we were really virgins going into the whole thing. We knew each other for two months, prior to that. Anyway, we used to argue a lot, over small things, any little thing really.Everything always seemed to be my fault. But we always made up. We would get tired of each other, but we would always get together again. It was like, living in a fantasy where no matter what everything would go right and we would be happy. The first few months, it was like a test. Just to see how far we could push each other. I cheated on him, twice, and he dumped me four times to try his hand at other girls. We weren't good for each other, at all, but we put up with each other. The most recent break up was about almost two months ago, and he hasn't contacted me since then. I tried hard to get him back, but he was done with me. He had his eyes set on another. So I pestered him, tried to be his friend, tried to convince him that I was sorry, but he wouldn't have it. He just got annoyed. He's moved on, and I stayed in the same spot. He isnt ready to be friends, and he may never be. he may never realize that he messed up too, and even though i did the worst of it, I could admit that i was wrong. I ended up getting a new boyfriend, just to make myself happy and do the right thing with someone for once. But I still think of him occasionally. I'm fed up of chasing him, and its time for me to accept things for how they are. With or without him. So tell me, are all first relationships this shitty?
  Posted on November 22, 2012 20:04
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Ividine wrote:
So, I was in a relationship with this guy for six and three quarters of a month. In this relationship, we had lots of problems, as with any other. It was both of our first times in a relationship, so we were really virgins going into the whole thing. We knew each other for two months, prior to that. Anyway, we used to argue a lot, over small things, any little thing really.Everything always seemed to be my fault. But we always made up. We would get tired of each other, but we would always get together again. It was like, living in a fantasy where no matter what everything would go right and we would be happy. The first few months, it was like a test. Just to see how far we could push each other. I cheated on him, twice, and he dumped me four times to try his hand at other girls. We weren't good for each other, at all, but we put up with each other. The most recent break up was about almost two months ago, and he hasn't contacted me since then. I tried hard to get him back, but he was done with me. He had his eyes set on another. So I pestered him, tried to be his friend, tried to convince him that I was sorry, but he wouldn't have it. He just got annoyed. He's moved on, and I stayed in the same spot. He isnt ready to be friends, and he may never be. he may never realize that he messed up too, and even though i did the worst of it, I could admit that i was wrong. I ended up getting a new boyfriend, just to make myself happy and do the right thing with someone for once. But I still think of him occasionally. I'm fed up of chasing him, and its time for me to accept things for how they are. With or without him. So tell me, are all first relationships this shitty?

Every relationship but your last will fail.
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  Posted on November 22, 2012 20:05
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Well you cheated on him, so you're a slag.

He dumped you because he's a dick.

You went back to him because you're a slag.


No not all first relationships are shitty, especially when neither party is a whore.
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  Posted on November 22, 2012 20:05
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one question u still virgin ?
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  Posted on November 22, 2012 20:06
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My first relationship lasted two weeks and nothing happened.
0 fucks were given.
Though I did get a lot of stuffed aminals.
To honor my 6th anniversary, I will not use Luvixi for an entire day. Yippee.
  Posted on November 22, 2012 20:06
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In what ways did you cheat twice?
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  Posted on November 22, 2012 20:07
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TheBlackMage wrote:
Ividine wrote:
So, I was in a relationship with this guy for six and three quarters of a month. In this relationship, we had lots of problems, as with any other. It was both of our first times in a relationship, so we were really virgins going into the whole thing. We knew each other for two months, prior to that. Anyway, we used to argue a lot, over small things, any little thing really.Everything always seemed to be my fault. But we always made up. We would get tired of each other, but we would always get together again. It was like, living in a fantasy where no matter what everything would go right and we would be happy. The first few months, it was like a test. Just to see how far we could push each other. I cheated on him, twice, and he dumped me four times to try his hand at other girls. We weren't good for each other, at all, but we put up with each other. The most recent break up was about almost two months ago, and he hasn't contacted me since then. I tried hard to get him back, but he was done with me. He had his eyes set on another. So I pestered him, tried to be his friend, tried to convince him that I was sorry, but he wouldn't have it. He just got annoyed. He's moved on, and I stayed in the same spot. He isnt ready to be friends, and he may never be. he may never realize that he messed up too, and even though i did the worst of it, I could admit that i was wrong. I ended up getting a new boyfriend, just to make myself happy and do the right thing with someone for once. But I still think of him occasionally. I'm fed up of chasing him, and its time for me to accept things for how they are. With or without him. So tell me, are all first relationships this shitty?

Every relationship but your last will fail.

Provided you die whilst still in the relationship.
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  Posted on November 22, 2012 20:08
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In what ways did you cheat twice?
probably cybering on messenger
and he entered in the room and he was Wtf :confused
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  Posted on November 22, 2012 20:09
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reissyboy wrote:
TheBlackMage wrote:
Ividine wrote:
So, I was in a relationship with this guy for six and three quarters of a month. In this relationship, we had lots of problems, as with any other. It was both of our first times in a relationship, so we were really virgins going into the whole thing. We knew each other for two months, prior to that. Anyway, we used to argue a lot, over small things, any little thing really.Everything always seemed to be my fault. But we always made up. We would get tired of each other, but we would always get together again. It was like, living in a fantasy where no matter what everything would go right and we would be happy. The first few months, it was like a test. Just to see how far we could push each other. I cheated on him, twice, and he dumped me four times to try his hand at other girls. We weren't good for each other, at all, but we put up with each other. The most recent break up was about almost two months ago, and he hasn't contacted me since then. I tried hard to get him back, but he was done with me. He had his eyes set on another. So I pestered him, tried to be his friend, tried to convince him that I was sorry, but he wouldn't have it. He just got annoyed. He's moved on, and I stayed in the same spot. He isnt ready to be friends, and he may never be. he may never realize that he messed up too, and even though i did the worst of it, I could admit that i was wrong. I ended up getting a new boyfriend, just to make myself happy and do the right thing with someone for once. But I still think of him occasionally. I'm fed up of chasing him, and its time for me to accept things for how they are. With or without him. So tell me, are all first relationships this shitty?

Every relationship but your last will fail.

Provided you die whilst still in the relationship.
No, your last CAN still fail.
But all previous ones will.
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  Posted on November 22, 2012 20:09
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Well, you cheated on him....At least he had the decency to break up with you every time he wanted to see another girl... Lmfao.

Not all relationships are like that, provided YOU change how YOU do things. If you cheat on every person you date, then yes, your relationships will be just as shitty as this one.
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  Posted on November 22, 2012 20:09
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reissyboy wrote:
Well you cheated on him, so you're a slag.

He dumped you because he's a dick.

You went back to him because you're a slag.


No not all first relationships are shitty, especially when neither party is a whore.
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  Posted on November 22, 2012 20:10
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Probably not, just because you two fucked up seriously doesn't mean every relationship is like that.

I hope you're not one of those 13 year old facebookers.
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  Posted on November 22, 2012 20:10
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your a bop

and ur nigga a ratchet

relationships are to much work idk be friends wit benfits

also leave him alone he doesnt wanna fuxs wit u

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  Posted on November 22, 2012 20:11
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I'm a huge slag.
But what does that have to do with me going back to him, again?

@gold- That's irrelevant.

@Vanilla- Well, does it really matter?
  Posted on November 22, 2012 20:12
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First one is always the hardest because you think you're in "love" but it's really just a high school crush that 97% of them are exactly that. You thought you depended on him, so you stayed with him and kept getting back together. Exactly why it took you while to move on. Although, for him he probably didn't forget, he just didn't want to repeat that cycle of being betrayed. You acted like a parasite and followed him and forgave him so easily everytime.
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