The "Share something about yourself" Character Building Activity


 Topic: The "Share something about yourself" Character Building Activity
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  Posted on June 24, 2008 10:09
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Recently, I've been thinking that there's really some part of everybody that they keep inside of them - and it's unhealthy to keep things like that inside without expressing them occasionally. So, what I propose is everyone list three facts about themselves that they consider embarrassing in this thread. For instance, a guy who has some feminine qualities about him could list those and vice-versa.

This way, you can perhaps find someone who faces the same difficulties as you and you can use that to build a friendship online, even if you never meet face to face. Obviously, don't give out personal information, and if there's someone you know who uses these boards, understand that they may happen to stumble along this thread one day and read this.

By letting out our feelings and our secrets, we lift a self-imposed burden on ourselves and by lifting that burden, our lives become so much easier to live and we are more free to be ourselves, both online and offline. It's amazing how much we can help our souls merely by sharing our personal feelings, and remember: be honest.

The whole purpose of this activity is to build character, and I'm making this thread because I want to help the Naruto-Boards community and I truly believe, from the bottom of my heart, that this will help. I'll start things off with what I believe are the three most embarrassing attributes about myself, and remember - keep it appropriate.

1. I'm a guy, yet I still try to work for an hourglass figure.
2. I cry a lot in secret, because I'm truly a sappy guy and I don't like it when other people around me know my feelings (For those of you who watched Clannad, I was watching it the other day and couldn't even concentrate on episode 9 because I was in tears the entire time).
3. I'm a very insecure person and I take out my insecurities by constantly joking around and never being too serious with anything. I also feel insecure about how I would "perform" with a woman, and the fact that I've never had a chance to "perform".
  Posted on June 24, 2008 10:14
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Interesting
I think one of my embarrasing qualities are the same as your number 3

But yea I am an insecure person also. And I also think I have too many feminine traits but to others its a good thing? I guess.
  Posted on June 24, 2008 10:25
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litochinkboi916 wrote:
Interesting
I think one of my embarrasing qualities are the same as your number 3

But yea I am an insecure person also. And I also think I have too many feminine traits but to others its a good thing? I guess.

It's a good thing as long as you be yourself and don't let the opinions of others ever change that. I think that simply by sharing that info, you put yourself one step closer to complete inner peace
  Posted on June 24, 2008 10:29
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NEOPETIUS wrote:
litochinkboi916 wrote:
Interesting
I think one of my embarrasing qualities are the same as your number 3

But yea I am an insecure person also. And I also think I have too many feminine traits but to others its a good thing? I guess.

It's a good thing as long as you be yourself and don't let the opinions of others ever change that. I think that simply by sharing that info, you put yourself one step closer to complete inner peace

Thanks and It's funny that you said to not let the opinions of others change that because I tend to care what other think also. I know I hate that in me. And somewhat admitting this helps me inside...:smile

There goes insecurities.:embarressed
  Posted on June 24, 2008 10:33
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1) i phail in my studies.... actually, i dont fail but i dont do very well, at least not as well as my family wants me to.:sad

2) I am introvert. my friends say i need to get socialise more:sad

3) Third one is too embarassing to post here:embarressed :embarressed :embarressed
  Posted on June 24, 2008 10:37
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Qoute:
2. I cry a lot in secret, because I'm truly a sappy guy and I don't like it when other people around me know my feelings
I'm the same way.

Other than that,nothing.
  Posted on June 24, 2008 10:57
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1. I'm to much of a go-getter if i set my sights on something i wont rest before i have it, and that delivers me stress..

2. I'm very vengefull what makes actually life just difficult

3. I sleep to short and not every night, well i guess thats bad.

And furthermore, I think this topic may actually help

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  Posted on June 24, 2008 11:09
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Other than what Neo said:

4. I have a not-so-big penis.

5. I like to listen to Backstreet Boys, Simon&Garfunkel, and Michael Bolton.

6. I used to cry before I sleep, because even if I make a lot of money working I still don't feel loved... and my only escape are long walks on the beach and aerobics.

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  Posted on June 24, 2008 15:02
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Um...

1. I have had sex at the age of 13.

2. I'm scared of dragonflies.

3. I've had Summer-school three times in a row.
  Posted on June 24, 2008 15:18
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1. im freak out for all flying bugs...and spiders...and im a guy
2. i have no social life because i am to shy
3. i have alot of self-hate...but i dont try to kill myself like those noobie emo's
4. i secretly cry from some anime series like elfen lied.....
5. i cosplay...to meet people...
6. i make amv's in my head whenever i sit in the bus/train/car/ when im cycling/walking...
7. i had sex when i was 14....and it rather much sucked for me because i was really scared..[but i think i did a good job]...
8. im butt-ugly
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like darkwashu:
9. I`m kinda addicted to telling lies to my parants...but just little ones
10. I pass school every year by the skin of my teeth, cause im just lazy
11. Im a big wuss
12. i get really nervous around the girls i like cuz im afraid i'll do something stupid infront of them and ruin my chances
13. i cant get mad, i used to get mad from everything and punch the people who made me mad. But now its like there's a seal on it and i just cant get physical on anyone anymore....
Im racist, so what? I hate white people, black people, yellow people, orange people....Actually all kinds of people who cares? People just suck ass, get over it and QQ somewhere else since my carecup is empty
  Posted on June 24, 2008 16:09
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1. I've started my sexual life last year... yep... 15...

2. I'm afraid of rats....

3. Like anubis-god .... I make amv's in my mind when I listen to music sometimes....
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  Posted on June 24, 2008 16:22
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I thought NEOPETIUS was dead...there was that topic long ago..rumors are dumb <_<.


This is gonna be awkward but here I go!:unsure

1.I`m kinda addicted to telling little while lies.
2.Most of those lies are mistakes I regret.
3.I pass school every year by the skin of my teeth,cause im just lazy.
4.Im a big wuss <_<.

  Posted on June 24, 2008 16:33
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- I lie a lot,but they're not really big important lies.Just small,simple ones.even though it doesn't seem like I lie.I just don't tell the "Whole truth" just my P.O.V. of it.

- <.< I'm addicted to games massively >.>

-I don't like to think about what to think that I don't want to think bout.
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  Posted on June 24, 2008 16:36
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\this no longer applys to my read what i posted on page 11
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  Posted on June 24, 2008 17:24
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This is one of the best thread ideas I've seen in a while, here are some of Rem's character flaws.

1) I'm afraid of commitment, not because it's tying myself down to something, but because I might let people down and that horrifies me.

2) In conversation sometimes I get very excited and it turns people off if they are just meeting me.

3) Sometimes I am the definition of lazy
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