Spying debate.


 Topic: Spying debate.
Users reading this topic: There are no members reading this topic.
Poll: Should parents search kids phones
10 vote(s) since January 2, 2016 17:37
yes (3) (30%)
no (7) (70%)
  Posted on January 2, 2016 17:37
holyscopes
Rank: member

Forum Rank:
Chuunin

Posts: 292
Joined on:
February 25, 2014
#1
Recently there was a bomb in the school , the child 14 y/o aparently texted his friends he was gonna " blow that bitch up " , Now the parents feel like its their fault....

Should parents beable to spy on their kids phone? I will list some scenarios below.


Tyrone : Refuses to unlock phone for parents because he has nudes of his girlfriend in there , is tyrone wrong?
Bob : Refuses to unlock phone because he has suicide threats in his phone is bob wrong?


Back story : Tyrone and Bob are both In 9th grade and both A-B students , and both have their fairshare of wrong in the past.
Tyrone smoked a blunt at alex house , Bob on the other hand was throwing brick into peoples windows.
  Posted on January 2, 2016 17:38
Hubbaa
Rank: member

Forum Rank:
Special Jounin

Posts: 994
Joined on:
October 20, 2014
#2
Yes.
"The world can only be grasped by action, not by contemplation. The hand is the cutting edge of the mind."- Diane Arbus

CC Showcase ツ ✎ Graphic Showcase ☠ ✎ A.M.A ♥ ✎Mission Guide❄✎ Alt: Alennor
  Posted on January 2, 2016 17:39
tsuchiyama
Rank: member

Forum Rank:
Jounin

Posts: 1141
Joined on:
June 5, 2009
#3
they can usually check the text logs depending on their provider, which should be done regardless


▬▬▬▬‣Death is not the greatest loss in life. The greatest loss is what dies inside us while we live.◂▬▬▬▬
  Posted on January 2, 2016 17:39
arntmawkunn
Rank: member

Forum Rank:
Jounin

Posts: 2423
Joined on:
February 28, 2010
#4
Yes i guess...
  Posted on January 2, 2016 17:40
blackdevil11
Rank: member

Forum Rank:
Jounin

Posts: 1059
Joined on:
August 15, 2008
#5
if the kids in middle school or 9th grade yeah
retired fuck you
  Posted on January 2, 2016 17:41
blodwen
Rank: member

Forum Rank:
Jounin

Posts: 2071
Joined on:
May 18, 2013
#6
If you need to spy on your kid to keep it under control, you should reconsider your parenting skills.
  Posted on January 2, 2016 17:41
holyscopes
Rank: member

Forum Rank:
Chuunin

Posts: 292
Joined on:
February 25, 2014
#7
blodwen wrote:
If you need to spy on your kid to keep it under control, you should reconsider your parenting skills.
Couldnt have said it better sir.
  Posted on January 2, 2016 17:49
vikson
Rank: member

Forum Rank:
Akatsuki

Posts: 7647
Joined on:
January 28, 2008
#8
blodwen wrote:
If you need to spy on your kid to keep it under control, you should reconsider your parenting skills.
|| My bio ||Icon ||Tag || Watch out for Jiyuu editing subs in wars =) The war

|| Suspiria || Join us || Challenge us ||
  Posted on January 2, 2016 17:50
Hubbaa
Rank: member

Forum Rank:
Special Jounin

Posts: 994
Joined on:
October 20, 2014
#9
blodwen wrote:
If you need to spy on your kid to keep it under control, you should reconsider your parenting skills.

Not at all.
You can't blame your parenting skills for the mistakes your child does.

That's just wrong.
"The world can only be grasped by action, not by contemplation. The hand is the cutting edge of the mind."- Diane Arbus

CC Showcase ツ ✎ Graphic Showcase ☠ ✎ A.M.A ♥ ✎Mission Guide❄✎ Alt: Alennor
  Posted on January 2, 2016 17:52
Glitch
Rank: member

Forum Rank:
Jounin

Posts: 1262
Joined on:
May 6, 2008
#10
Hubbaa wrote:
blodwen wrote:
If you need to spy on your kid to keep it under control, you should reconsider your parenting skills.

Not at all.
You can't blame your parenting skills for the mistakes your child does.

That's just wrong.
The child wouldnt have done any mistakes if the parenting was right.
  Posted on January 2, 2016 17:54
holyscopes
Rank: member

Forum Rank:
Chuunin

Posts: 292
Joined on:
February 25, 2014
#11
Glitch wrote:
Hubbaa wrote:
blodwen wrote:
If you need to spy on your kid to keep it under control, you should reconsider your parenting skills.

Not at all.
You can't blame your parenting skills for the mistakes your child does.

That's just wrong.
The child wouldnt have done any mistakes if the parenting was right.
Sometimes people do what they wanna do.
  Posted on January 2, 2016 17:55
Hubbaa
Rank: member

Forum Rank:
Special Jounin

Posts: 994
Joined on:
October 20, 2014
#12
Glitch wrote:
Hubbaa wrote:
blodwen wrote:
If you need to spy on your kid to keep it under control, you should reconsider your parenting skills.

Not at all.
You can't blame your parenting skills for the mistakes your child does.

That's just wrong.
The child wouldnt have done any mistakes if the parenting was right.

They have to do and learn from these mistakes, otherwise they'll never be ready to face the world.
"The world can only be grasped by action, not by contemplation. The hand is the cutting edge of the mind."- Diane Arbus

CC Showcase ツ ✎ Graphic Showcase ☠ ✎ A.M.A ♥ ✎Mission Guide❄✎ Alt: Alennor
  Posted on January 2, 2016 17:55
akame
Rank: member

Forum Rank:
Sannin

Posts: 3665
Joined on:
November 15, 2008
#13
Hubbaa wrote:
Glitch wrote:
Hubbaa wrote:
Not at all.
You can't blame your parenting skills for the mistakes your child does.

That's just wrong.
The child wouldnt have done any mistakes if the parenting was right.

They have to do and learn from these mistakes, otherwise they'll never be ready to face the world.
setting up a bomb is not a "mistake"
Est.99
Forgive me for my wrongs i have just begun
Ask me anything Dissing all nb gfxers Soundcloud

  Posted on January 2, 2016 17:56
blackdevil11
Rank: member

Forum Rank:
Jounin

Posts: 1059
Joined on:
August 15, 2008
#14
Glitch wrote:
Hubbaa wrote:
blodwen wrote:
If you need to spy on your kid to keep it under control, you should reconsider your parenting skills.

Not at all.
You can't blame your parenting skills for the mistakes your child does.

That's just wrong.
The child wouldnt have done any mistakes if the parenting was right.
i gotta disagree man you can tell someone whats right and wrong to do or the right or wrong way to act but at the end of the day they gonna do what they want
retired fuck you
  Posted on January 2, 2016 18:05
Glitch
Rank: member

Forum Rank:
Jounin

Posts: 1262
Joined on:
May 6, 2008
#15
blackdevil11 wrote:
Glitch wrote:
Hubbaa wrote:
Not at all.
You can't blame your parenting skills for the mistakes your child does.

That's just wrong.
The child wouldnt have done any mistakes if the parenting was right.
i gotta disagree man you can tell someone whats right and wrong to do or the right or wrong way to act but at the end of the day they gonna do what they want
Bombing or attempting suicide is not just thought out of nowhere.
Its either depression or something else very negative and the parents wouldve catched onto it.
If the kid is taught well and knows the difference between right or wrong then i dont think he'd have the idea of bombing or suicide as mentioned in this topic.
There are currently no users online.